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Mr. Natural
April 30th, 2004, 08:44 am
Howdy gang,
“Is there a hyphen in anal-retentive?” This is something I’m now hearing occasionally from Christie as she observes some of my habits around the house. Let me back up a number of years….uh well around 25 years to be exact. At the ripe old age of 21 I moved out of my parents house. An old friend of mine who just got out of the military and I got a town house. But after that year I came across a house and a deal that was too good to pass up. It was at the age of 22 I bought my first house. Gaim Mastr could probably explain better how a guy at 22 years of age can buy a house. It has to do with assuming a mortgage from someone needing out. Anyway here I was a strapping young bachelor with my own pad. Anyone can imagine how a single guy at that age kept a clean house…I didn’t. I lived there 8 years and as that final year had come I had quite a mess in that house. Junk accumulated in rooms to the point I couldn’t walk into them. I felt like it was an insurmountable mountain which had built up and I was disgusted with it. When I moved out of that house and into a new one it was like a new start for me and I vowed I would never live like that again….and I don’t. I’m not obsessive at all, but I do pick up after myself now. So I guess along the years I have picked up some odd quirks. It comes with living alone for years and having no-one to comment or countermand your actions. A few examples? Well I always clean up the kitchen right after dinner. When I was younger and in the old house I didn’t do dishes…..ever….almost. I just stacked up dirty dishes on the kitchen counter until I ran out of dishes. Then I would finally wash them after running out of dishes. Imagine an “L” shaped counter with dirty dishes stacked all over it. I didn’t have a dishwasher back in the olden days. Flash forward to the present. After finishing dinner now-a-days I get all the dishes out of the sink and wash or put them into the dishwasher, then wipe down the dinner table, wipe off the stove and clean up all the water splashed around the sink, then I neatly hang the rag over the divider between the dual sink pan. I do this every time after we eat at the house. No waiting until later. It’s become a rather robotic, automatic response after finishing dinner. A couple years ago I did this when a girl was visiting and as I turned around to look at her after cleaning the sink I observed this astonished look on her face. With Christie I get, “Is there a hyphen in anal-retentive?” I realize for a woman the preceding mentioned activity of mine would be considered normal. But for a male of the species this is considered abnormal or someone might start questioning your sanity or sexual preference.
Whenever Christie suggests something new I have a bad habit of dismissing it, then analyzing the situation before considering the suggestion. I’m not one to act on a whim.
Anything that breaks my normal routine around the house tends to make me crabby at first and even may cause me to be confused for a moment.
“Is there a hyphen in anal-retentive?”
I tend to think of it as just “becoming an old fart”, “set in my ways”, being single for long periods of time. Christie has a different take on the situation. “Insert quote again”.
Despite that she seems to enjoy being with me still. I must be doing something right. :wink:
Last Friday I got to enjoy my old routine of brewski and some Far Cry. I eventually got to a point of getting stuck because of one of these big lugs with a rocket launcher in a hallway followed by 2 of those jumping thing’s. It’s right after you flood that room to float up to the escape duct. I had limited ammo so it made it fairly tough and I reloaded that part probably 20 times. I finally gave up and went for some BF1942 for a while. I realize now I had reached my “co-ordination skills had decreased due to brewski intake” level. A couple days later I made it through that area on the third try. BTW – Far Cry has made me tinker with over-clocking my pc once again to try to squeeze a little more performance out of it. My profile lists my system specs. I have a pretty decent gaming rig, yet Far Cry is pushing it to its limit. Unless I come up with something else by next Friday maybe I’ll share my thoughts on over-clocking.
Unfortunately I may not be gaming much this weekend. After only seeing each other once in the past week Christie and I have some “catching up” to do. Maybe it’s time I let her give Far Cry a shot. Only problem with that is I might not get my chair back. This will take some thought……”Insert quote again”.
Enjoy your weekend gang. Party on!

Mara
April 30th, 2004, 09:05 am
Happy Friday, everyone.

A couple years ago I did this when a girl was visiting and as I turned around to look at her after cleaning the sink I observed this astonished look on her face.

Yes, this kind of activity from the male of the species does tend to astonish most of us! :yes:

Another lost weekend for me. Commencement is tomorrow and that means half a day lost to that, then a wedding in the evening. Not mine. Sunday is dinner at my sister's house. Oh well. Next weekend is mine, however. I'm not working anywhere doing anything! And, next week is the beginning of our half-day Fridays. We only work a half-day on Fridays from May until the middle of August. So a two-and-a-half day weekend next week!!

Hope everyone has a great weekend!

Nova
April 30th, 2004, 09:27 am
Happy Friday :):

Once again, it's more homework for me. Right now I have an essay on the ethics of advertising in the video game industry. It's not too bad a topic I'd say. Gotta find a job too, been working on the letter with my resume. I want to make sure it's perfect :thumbup:

As for gaming, if I have time, I'll be playing Painkiller, BG1 and UT2004. Painkiller is really fun :):

Jagndeke
April 30th, 2004, 10:22 am
Happy Friday All. I hope the weather gods are nice this weekend. I've got some outside-the-house chores I want to get at so I can get them out of the way early and get in some game playin' time! :shades:

Chylde Roland
April 30th, 2004, 10:28 am
Yep, it's friday and pay day, so that's good. The bad is that I'm fighting a wicked head cold, so please don't get too close if you value your health.

Going to a play tonight with Kathy, we got the tickets for free from work. One of my friends saw the play and liked it, so I figure it shouldn't be too bad. It was my sister's b-day yesterday, so we go to my mom's tomorrow to celebrate. I'm pretty sure Sunday is all mine, and that means sleeping late, and playing some games. I also just picked up RA Salvatore's Icewind Dale trilogy in a collector's volume, so I hope to squeeze some reading in there as well.

Have a great weekend, folks!

Circlebreaker
April 30th, 2004, 10:47 am
Happy Friday!

After finishing dinner now-a-days I get all the dishes out of the sink and wash or put them into the dishwasher, then wipe down the dinner table, wipe off the stove and clean up all the water splashed around the sink, then I neatly hang the rag over the divider between the dual sink pan. I do this every time after we eat at the house.

I do the same thing each time after I've eaten, so I guess I'm anal-retentive too. :lol: It's just the way we've been raised, everytime after dinner you clean up the table and put everything away.

I'll be studying this weekend too. Exams are coming up, and I'm affraid I'll never get everything done in time. :scared: O well, I always feel that way right before the exams, so I guess I'll survive again this time around. :):

Dan Speziale
April 30th, 2004, 10:59 am
I definitely fall into the let the dishes pile up category, though I have gotten better at keeping things clean around the house. My wife says that I just don't see the mess if I'm in the middle of a project. That's very true.

This coming weekend brings us the baptism of my sister and brother-in-law's triplets, Mark, Anna and Emma. It's also my Mom's birthday. We may have some time on Saturday, but I think most of that will be running around getting gifts together and wrapped.

I hope everyone has a great weekend!

Dan

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April 30th, 2004, 11:24 am
I'll be spending the weekend mostly recovering from a whirlwind 3 day trip home. Somewhere in there I'll be playing some ToCa2, and watching the Avs misery continue, and attempting to find some track time to make up for the time I missed last Sunday...

Okay, so maybe I won't be recouperating too much...*sigh* Maybe I'll just go home from work today so I can be rested for the weekend. :D

Btw Herr Natural; Did you know that anal-retentive translated to German is German.

Shaolin K
April 30th, 2004, 11:34 am
When I first moved out of my parents' house, I definitely fell into the "don't want to do any dishes" category. After having dishes pile up in the kitchen, I just got paper plates and threw them away after I was done eating. I quickly realized that number one, it wasn't environmentally friendly, and second it cost a lot of money. Needless to say I went back to regular dishes and fell into a similar routine than most of you guys here. Now I always clean up right after I'm done with breakfast, lunch or dinner. So I guess I'm officially joining the ana-retentive club here at 3dg.

Well, this weekend Mika and me are heading down to Miami and then further south to the Florida Keys. We're starting to pack our clothes for this little trip right now, I'm just taking a quick break at the moment. I'm really looking forward to this trip and so is she. I think she will love Miami and especially the keys.

Since she came I haven't had any time for gaming whatsoever, so nothing new going on in that department. I think I did get about 10-15min. of Morrowind in while she was in the shower a couple of days ago, but other than that we're always together. I'm gonna see if I can get her to try one game when we come back from our trip. Maybe I can make a gamer out of her yet :):

Well, have a great weekend everyone.

Terry Penrod
April 30th, 2004, 03:43 pm
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Happy Friday Mr. N and Company.

Loved your slice-of-life story Tim but have just one thing to say about it.

PARAGRAPH BREAKS PLEASE!


As far as anal-retentive goes, the hyphen is optional. Either way is perfectly acceptable and proper.


As far as the behavior goes, well, the one thing that helped break me of those habits at an early age was not marriage but offshore ocean racing aboard world-class sailing yachts. You DO NOT let anything "just stack up" - ever and you ALWAY put EVERYTHING away exactly where and how you found it. Doing otherwise will cause problems - especially when the weather suddenly kicks-up in the pitch black of a stormy, overcast night around 3 am, hundreds of miles from the nearest shore, it can very easily cause the death of you and the entire crew.

However, a few years later I did meet my true love, got blissfully married and then had many of the same things drilled into me. But I was by then a remarkably easy dog to house break.


As far as this weekend goes, I have nothing at all planned for the second weekend in a row - for first time in ages - and plan to do just that, nothing at all. Well, except to sleep a lot, eat a little, forego shaving and play some more Arx Fatalis.


Cheers, Terry

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Ojnod
April 30th, 2004, 03:53 pm
Maybe I can make a gamer out of her yet

She is japanese, it is in her blood :p

Mara
April 30th, 2004, 03:59 pm
Btw Herr Natural; Did you know that anal-retentive translated to German is German.
:lol:

Chylde Roland
April 30th, 2004, 04:04 pm
That cracked me up too, Mara! One of my best friends is German, and though she tries to deny it, she's very German. Cracks me right up!

Terry Penrod
April 30th, 2004, 04:10 pm
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Is that like saying Chinese food in China is just food?

Cheers, Terry

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Mr. Natural
April 30th, 2004, 04:26 pm
PARAGRAPH BREAKS PLEASE!
Sorry about that. I typically write these anecdotes a day or two in advance so that I can quickly paste and post early in the morning so that our friends in the far east and down under can read this when it is still Friday. As a result the copy and paste mode tends to lose the formatting at times. I'll try to clean it up a bit next time.